'I don't like gaining weight, but I don't treat fat people differently.' 'Fat people don't experience discrimination.' 'We're in the middle of an obesity epidemic.' 'Body positivity is about feeling better about yourself, as long as you're happy and healthy.' 'Accepting fat people 'glorifies obesity.'' 'Fat people are emotionally damaged and cope by 'eating their feelings.'' Fat people don't like going to the doctor's office because they don't like hearing the truth.' 'Doctors are unbiased judges of fat people's health. 'The BMI is an objective measure of size and health.' 'Obesity is the leading cause of death in the United States.' 'Weight loss is the result of healthy choices and should be celebrated.' 'Thin people should help fat people lose weight.' Only bad parents let their children get fat.' 'Parents are responsible for their child's weight. It's just a matter of 'calories in, calories out.'' 'Any fat person can become thin if they try hard enough. If fat people don't like how they're treated, they should just lose weight.' Connect with her at, and as YrFatFriend on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook. She lives in the Northwest, where she works as a writer and organizer. Her work has also been featured in Health magazine, Vox, and Gay Mag, among others. She is co-host of the Maintenace Phase podcast and a columnist with SELF magazine. Her work has reached millions of readers and has been translated into 19 languages.

Aubrey Gordon writes under the pseudonym of 'Your Fat Friend,' illuminating the experiences of fat people and urging greater compassion for people of all sizes.

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